Love, it is said is such a deep emotion that it requires no words, no expressions; just understanding. One can trace this epithet to the Romeos and Juliets, Sonis and Mahirwals and many other epic lovers who have blessed our imagination. But, this is the age of fast-paced information technology where words are measured and time is sparse. Distances have widened to inexplicable horizons and communication is the key to managing any successful relation. No wonder, with thousands of divorce suits being filed in US every week, consultants and relationship managers warn against taking any relationship for granted.

Actually the problem is smugness that we tend to develop after having spent some time in the relation. We tend to take things as they come assuming that the other person will definitely respond in the way we expect him or her to. This makes love difficult and fails relationship. What one must do then?

Well, prescriptions are there aplenty. But a simple way is to thank your lover. Yes, you read it right. Thanking has enormous powers—so much so that it can mend broken hearts and unite waning passions. Thank your lover for what he/ she means to you. Thank your lover for what he/she has done for you. Thank your lover for every small change that she/ he has brought in your life. Thanking makes the person feel that he/she is important for you. This is strengthens the relationship.

It is of course implied that such thanks be conveyed with utmost romanticism. After all, thanking your girlfriend or boyfriend is different from thanking your colleague or teacher. It could be a nice candle light dinner or a toast of champagne with some soft music, but surprise is the key. And for those simpletons, it can be a simple hug or kiss.